skip to Main Content

How to Behave at a Tea Party by Madelyn Rosenberg/Book Giveaway

WIN A SIGNED COPY OF HOW TO BEHAVE AT A TEA PARTY
Written by Madelyn Rosenberg & Illustrated by Heather Ross
(Katherine Tegen Books, $17.99, Ages 4-8)

Tea-Party-cvr.jpg

REVIEW:

I LOVE all things tea party and Madelyn Rosenberg’s How To Behave at a Tea Party is no exception. I found myself itching to know how this adorable and entertaining picture book ended because its premise – not all tea parties go according to plan – is such fun! The cover, with the tea party hostess’s younger brother under the table reminded me of the numerous of tea parties my daughter threw many years ago. I recall running interference for her as my son’s trains and web of tracks seemed to always wind their way towards her precariously arranged party table.

Julia, the picture book’s narrator, is determined to show her little brother Charles the ins and outs of hosting a tea. Naturally you start by creating unique invitations, hand delivering them to the guests. Charles, contentedly playing with toys alongside his dog and pet frog, has a look of apprehension on his face, as do the pets. Julia’s instructions continue,

Next, you put on fancy clothes.
Wear a fancy hat.
Underwear does not count as a hat.

and though Charles and company try their best to cooperate, the results of their efforts (or lack thereof) are hysterical as witnessed in the illustration of the frog with undies covering one eye looking very much like ’40s film star, Veronica Lake. And let it be known, big sis does NOT want the McKagan brothers invited to tea, “Or the frog.” But it’s obvious from Rosenberg’s succinct and spot on prose along with Ross’s humorous illustrations that Julia is not getting her way, warranting her to “take deep breaths and count to seven.”

 

HowToBehave-int.jpg
Interior artwork from How To Behave at a Tea Party by Madelyn Rosenberg and illustrated by Heather Ross, Katherine Tegen Books, ©2014.

 

The juxtapositioning of Julia’s attempts to remain calm and in control of her tea party while watching its decorum slowly go downhill after a series of colorful mishaps is a big part of this book’s appeal. Another is watching the chaos ensue and seeing all the kids’ (and animals’) reactions as depicted so perfectly by Ross. This “Manners! What manners?” tea party provides a great jumping off point for discussion about appropriate and inappropriate behavior while at the same time demonstrates that it’s okay if things go off course. In fact, many times it’s actually a lot more fun!

– Reviewed by Ronna Mandel

GIVEAWAY:

a Rafflecopter giveaway

0 0 vote
Article Rating
Share this:
61 Comments
Oldest
Newest Most Voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Cathy Ballou Mealey
March 4, 2015 9:16 am

What?? Underwear does not count as a hat? No wonder my tea parties never go off without a hitch. This sounds super!

Tylia
March 4, 2015 10:43 am

My daughter is constantly throwing tea parties. I will make little play-doh cakes for the tea parties but every once in awhile that’s not enough. She’ll try and stuff the play-doh into the tea pot and pour it out, which never goes according to plan. She stuffed so much play-doh into the funnel of the tea pot that I had to use every manner at my disposal to get it out.

At least she is no longer requesting real tea in her tea set any more. That one was a nightmare.

Laura S
Laura S
March 4, 2015 1:06 pm

My favourite tea party mishap will always be when Anne (of Green Gables) has Diana over for tea and serves current wine, thinking it’s raspberry cordial. Poor Anne and Diana!

Laura Gehl
March 4, 2015 2:39 pm

I was so excited to have a daughter after 3 boys, and so far she has hosted not one single tea party in her almost-five years. What am I doing wrong??? I guess I just need to read her Madelyn’s book more often 🙂

Barbara Ann Mojica
March 4, 2015 2:53 pm

Seems like tea parties are back in fashion…..see a lot of this lately!

sarah
sarah
March 4, 2015 5:48 pm

I remember as a child making “tea” for my parties from various liquids I found in the bathroom… you can imagine my mother was less then pleased to find I had made tea with her good perfume and beauty products.

Nicole
Nicole
March 4, 2015 6:06 pm

Spilling the drinks!! Always seems to happen to me

Tiffany Clarke
Tiffany Clarke
March 4, 2015 6:57 pm

I’ve never been to a tea party lol my friends are far from sophisticated! ☺ but I spill food on my clothes literally every time I eat so that’s bound to happen…

Megan Tilley
Megan Tilley
March 4, 2015 8:12 pm

My little one is to young for a tea party but I can’t wait… I accidently pour my dads spit cup into his teacup for him to drink! Whoops!

Julie Waldron
Julie Waldron
March 5, 2015 10:34 am

More embarrassing than humorous but when I was in 8th grade an out of town friend had a Halloween party. I showed up and was the only one dressed up! To make things worse, we went to a Homecoming football game against my school.

Tonya Schulte
March 5, 2015 1:04 pm

My daughter once hosted a pretty winter tea party with several of her little girlfriends. We hired a face painter to transform the girls into pretty winter fairies. One of the girls had to bring her little brother and he wanted a facepainting, too! Luckily the facepainter was prepared and the little prince ended up looking adorable in a manly face paint. All the princesses (and one little prince) enjoyed the day!

trackback

[…] Enter this Giveaway at Good Reads With Ronna […]

Audra
Audra
March 10, 2015 7:31 pm

Luckily I have not had one!

michelle k.
March 10, 2015 7:34 pm

One time a my daughter’s sleepover the girls decided it would be great fun to build a tent at 2 a.m. They woke me up and wanted to know if I had any sticks!!

Lindsey Johnston
March 10, 2015 8:40 pm

I don’t have any funny stories about tea parties, but my daughter still is into dress up. Most days last year she wore a skimpy little butterfly costume that showed her nipples. AT least it was only at home!

Leah Shumack
Leah Shumack
March 11, 2015 12:41 am

We had planned an outdoor party a few years ago and of course it had to rain…we ended up with no plates (wet paper plates don’t work…) and everyone soaking wet. We ended up breaking out water balloons and the slip n slide since we were already wet. By the end of the party everyone was covered in mud but a good time was had by all!

Natalie
Natalie
March 11, 2015 8:06 am

The only tea party mishap I can think of is our dog always wants to be invited 🙂 and always helps herself to the treats. So now we have a spot for her to

shea balentine
shea balentine
March 11, 2015 8:21 am

I haven’t ever been the tea party type of girl, but I did love the tea party mishap in Anne of Green Gables =)

Kimberly
Kimberly
March 11, 2015 9:58 am

My toddler went through a huge nudist phase, so we have had more than our fair share of naked tea parties.

Adrianne B
Adrianne B
March 11, 2015 9:59 am

My daughter attended a birthday party at the Princess Tea Party Castle for a friend. WHen the princess in charge asked all the girls what they wanted to be when they grew up, my then-four-year-old said, “A turtle.”

Darlene Owen
Darlene Owen
March 11, 2015 11:30 am

My little granddaughter is allergic to nuts, she was at a party eating her cake, when someone mentioned the coconut on the cake was a nut, they grabbed it away from her, she was all upset but she got over it.

mechele johnson
mechele johnson
March 11, 2015 11:39 am

My 4 year old daughter Maybelle constantly tries to have a tea party in which her guests are our dachshund Pearl and our cat Jackpot. As you can imagine, it doesn’t usually turn out how she wants it too.

Melissa B.
Melissa B.
March 11, 2015 12:53 pm

No disasters, but I did throw a tea party for my preschool class when we were learning about the letter T. The boys wore ties and the girls wore their Sunday dresses. Lots of fun.

Vicki
Vicki
March 11, 2015 1:11 pm

At my young daughter’s first tea party, she put 6 sugar cubes in her tea when I wasn’t looking. When she went to take a sip, the look on her face was priceless! Wish I had a picture!

Nancy
Nancy
March 11, 2015 1:57 pm

Once a family member’s dog got under my feet as I was transferring a plate of spaghetti to the table and it spilled all over the dog!

Donna L
Donna L
March 11, 2015 3:27 pm

I remember my daughter having tea parties. That was a long time ago.

Donna Teller
Donna Teller
March 11, 2015 6:01 pm

We haven’t had anything go wrong during a tea party but we did recently have a birthday party for my niece and we made the cake the night before. When it was time for the party we went to get the cake out and her little brother had grabbed a huge chunk out of the cake and ate it. Luckily we had extra frosting and were able to quickly fill and cover the whole with frosting.

jennifer
jennifer
March 11, 2015 7:03 pm

My daughter loves tea parties, but is super clumsy…. it’s always messy, but totally worth it!

karen
karen
March 11, 2015 7:18 pm

The only mishap I can remember is spilling the “tea” all over my grandmother’s tablecloth.

Lisa Vanhook
Lisa Vanhook
March 11, 2015 10:01 pm

Don’t much remember tea parties,,,but I do remember my two younger brothers always managed to get hold of my unopened soda and give it a good shake right before I opened it.

Karen Propes
Karen Propes
March 11, 2015 10:51 pm

My Granddaughter is always having tea parties, she loves to set up her stuffed animals. One day when she was dressing up her animals in tutus, her dog came in and sat at the table with them, so she put a tutu on her and she was so excited she could hardly pour the tea. So precious!
ncjeepster@aol.com

Dawn S.
Dawn S.
March 11, 2015 11:50 pm

As a little girl, I learned the hard way that a curious and hungry dog is not a good guest at a tea party!

Back To Top
61
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x
%d bloggers like this: