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Books That Help Make a First Doctor or Dentist Visit a Less Scary Experience
The First Time Series from Child’s Play International, Ltd. is reviewed by Rita Zobayan
My first memory of a dentist visit is of a dark waiting room that led into an office with a Mr. Men mobile over the examination chair and a few flower stickers on the white walls. Many years later, my daughters’ dentist office has multiple flat screen TVs with constantly playing DVDs, books and toys galore, a fish tank, and bright, multi-colored walls. For all the progress in aesthetics, however, a child’s fear of a visit to the dentist still remains.
Illustrated by Jess Stockham, the Child’s Play “First Time” series of 8 titles ($5.99 each, Childs-play.com, ages 2 to 5) addresses children’s visits to a doctor, dentist, hospital, vet and *more. The easy-to-understand language, depictions of common procedures/situations, and culturally diverse illustrations provide a solid base for a parent to begin explaining what happens at these visits and whom the child will encounter.
Parents of younger children can use the illustrations to point out procedures, e.g., the little mirror goes into your mouth so the dentist can check your teeth. Parents of older children may find the text helpful in addressing a child’s questions and fears. Written from the viewpoint of the child (“I haven’t had a filling before. Will it hurt?”) and from the medical professional (“I’ll put some gel on your gum, so it shouldn’t hurt at all.”), the text provides clear explanations of what happens after the fun and games in the waiting room are over. Each book also features a glossary with definitions for personnel (dental hygienist), instruments (crutches), procedures (taking blood), and conditions (concussion).
The books also address the more daunting aspects of these visits (an overnight stay at the hospital, an operation and a terminally ill pet). Again, the simple explanations and matter-of-fact manner allow the parent room to provide more information and reassurance. For example, the Hospital book depicts a child being prepared for an operation. The nurse explains what will happen (“We will give you something to make you sleep. Then we’ll take you for the operation. When you wake up, it will all be over.”), while the mother holds the child’s hand. A parent can use this text to expand further and relate to their child’s situation: “You’ll be sleepy, too and I’ll be with you just like that mommy. When you wake up, I’ll be right there to help you feel better.”
While most children may never enjoy going to the doctor or dentist, the “First Time” series will help them understand what to expect. Of course, the promise of a small treat after a shot doesn’t hurt either.
*NOTE: In this First Time series, you will find 8 books: Vet, Dentist, Doctor, Hospital, Big Day Out, Nursery, Sleepover, and Babysitter.
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These look wonderful! I am wondering if you have anything for children who are visiting a sick parent in the hospital and this is the child’s first time in a hospital? And/or anything for children with a parent coming home from the hospital and not able to fully function for a while? Thank you!
One book reviewed some time back was from Charlesbridge Publishers. The book was called EMMA’S QUESTION by Catherine Urdahl. Here’s the link: https://www.goodreadswithronna.com/2009/05/23/a-difficult-question-to-ask. While I haven’t recently reviewed any books exactly like this, I did check on a wonderful site called Mamapedia.com and one reader suggested some of these books. Another great site to visit is Parenthood.com and submit the question to the community of readers. It also depends on whether parent has a serious illness, perhaps cancer or heart trouble. Then the different sites such as those of The American Cancer Society or The American Heart Association can be helpful resources. I hope this helps. Please see below for what one elementary school counselor recommended. Also, the series reviewed on this post includes a visit to the hospital, but for the child, not to see someone.
K.S. answers from Seattle on January 22, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about the struggles your family is going through. I am a elementary school counselor and have many resources you could look at. Below are some recommended books for little ones
1. In Mommy’s Garden – A book to help explain cancer to young children by Neyal J. Ammary (It uses a garden scene to explain what cancer is)
2.Kids Talk – Kids Speak out About breast Cancer by Laura Numeroff and Wendy Harpham (kids write about different topics concerning cancer – can I catch it? – how my family found out – emotions – and such)
3. Are you Tired Again?… I Understand by Marilyn Deutsch ( a activities workbook to help children understand and live with a person who had a chronic illness)
4. When someone is very sick by J. Boulden
5. When someon has a very serious illness by M. Heegaard
6. My family is living with cancer by B. Smith
7. The paper chain by C. Blake
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